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How To Write Simple And Good Father Of The Groom Speech
Planning is vital for crafting a memorable father of the groom speech. You can follow this step by step guide to help you plan the perfect speech for your son’s wedding celebration.
Watch Simple And Good Father Of The Groom Speech Video Examples
If you are new to giving wedding toasts, watching a few father of the groom speech toast videos can help you understand the process and inspire your delivery.
You can watch this video for valuable guidance and inspiration.
Create An Outline/Structure For Your Father Of The Groom Speech Toast
Begin by creating an outline or structure for your father of the groom speech, making it easier to craft a simple yet meaningful wedding speech for your beloved son and daughter-in-law.
Most father of the groom speeches follow this general outline:
· Father welcomes and greets the wedding crowd
· He thanks everyone for coming
· The father of the groom says who he is to the bride and groom
· He starts his speech
· The groom’s father tells a fond childhood memory
· He shares an anecdote about his growing up years
· Talks about when he met the bride
· Groom’s dad talks about the bride
· Shares his best wishes and marriage advice
· Ends with a toast
Having these elements will make writing your wedding toast a breeze. Ok. Let’s illustrate each point with relevant examples, helping you understand what to write for each section.
Let’s take a close look at how it works.
· Father Welcome And Greet The Wedding Crowd
You can easily do that without batting an eye lid. No example is needed here, right?
Ok, here is a short example:
I want to extend a warm welcome to our friends and family who have joined us to celebrate this special occasion. Your love and support mean the world to us.
· He Thanks Everyone For Coming
Thanking people for their time and presence isn’t difficult, right? So, let’s look at an example:
I would like to thank family and friends for traveling from far and near to share in our joy.
Let’s get to the next thing.
· The Father Of The Groom Says Who He Is To The Bride And Groom
An example would be:
I want to begin by saying what an incredible honor it is to stand before you all as the father of the groom. I am Dan. Today is a day that has been long awaited, not just by my son Matt and his beautiful bride Alicia, but by our entire family.
I am confident you can do that too. Let’s move on to something else.
· Father Of The Groom Starts His Speech
Begin by expressing your heartfelt sentiments about the occasion, sharing stories and memories from the journey leading up to the wedding, and including cherished anecdotes.
Here’s an example:
This is a love story! In short, a long love story, I have been hanging tight for this moment for 6 years, 8 months, 22 days, 16 hours, and a few minutes over a quarter-century, and I should say that it is surely the most enjoyable thing I have ever done.
Begin by warmly complimenting the bride and groom, or expressing appreciation for the distinguished guests.
· The Groom’s Father Tells A Fond Childhood Memory
As a child he was very athletic and strong. He walked at 9 years old. I think that is also when he first kicked a ball. Our house was full of balls! He excelled at every sport, particularly basketball. In fact, for those of you who don’t know, Dean was inducted into the Hall of Fame in Melbourne at 36 years old.
This is how to get great ideas to help you write about your son’s childhood. Take a moment to brainstorm and ask youself these questions:
· What was your child like when he was a little boy? Was your son a kind, loving etc child?
· Do you have a fond memory you would like to share?
The answers to those questions will provide a great starting point for your speech.
· He Shares An Anecdote About His Growing Up Years
Here are some ways to get ideas for this aspect of your speech:
· Share a fun and fond anecdote
· Talk about his first job
· Share how he helped make you a better person and dad
· Mention his high school or college graduation
What would you like to say about his growing up years? Just go ahead and use the guidelines above to write a rough first draft.
This example can give you an idea:
From high school Tim transitioned to college and out of the home. To me it was a small victory but to Martha it was a loss. Leia felt it was a high point of her life. We trusted him but he kept telling us everything that happened. At the right time Tim parted ways from the local college and went to Crempton University where he excelled.
Seizing the moment, he applied to graduate school at….
· Talk About When You Met The Bride
Compared to the rest of your wedding speech, that sounds like a cinch, right?
Here’s an example to get you thinking:
Our first meeting with Sophia was at a youth camp Aberdeen, where Dee and Sophia first
crossed paths. Sophia was the housekeeping
manager intern, and Dee worked in the
kitchen. Their connection was evident even
before we arrived, with Sophia making frequent
appearances in Dee’s Instagram pictures and
conversations. On one of the last days of the
camp,
· Groom’s Dad Talks About The Bride
Below is an example:
And Magdalene, I must say, as soon as we met you, we knew you were someone special. Your genuine love for family, strength in the face of loss, and commitment to building a life together with Danny have touched our hearts deeply and we are happy it’s now official.
How about this short example?
Jenni, my dear, you have brought so much joy
and love into Rob’s life, and I couldn’t be
happier that he found someone as special as
you. When Rob missed the cutoff date for the
fire department test, I was amazed by his
determination to pursue his dreams regardless.
He became a paramedic and continued to make
a difference in people’s lives, just as he will in
yours, Jenni. I’ve seen the love you both share, and it reminds me of Rob’s favorite movie, Forest Gump. He always says you two are like peas and carrots — a perfect blend of unique personalities.
If you don’t know her well, you can still offer heartfelt compliments by acknowledging her beauty, how she complements your son, their chemistry together, sharing your son’s praise for her, or simply wishing them happiness and well-being in their future together.
Now, what would you like to say or write about your new daughter-in-law? This is a moment for reflection and the above extract can help you do just that. The ball is now in your court.
· Shares His Best Wishes And Marriage Advice
Here are some examples that can enrich your speech.
Marriage advice#1: There is no such thing as a perfect marriage because it is made of imperfect people. God is the only one that is perfect and having Him in the middle of your marriage guarantees perfection in all the imperfect circumstances.
Marriage advice#2: Marriage is not easy. It takes compromise, sacrifice, and revealing yourself to another person. However, if you are willing to work and submit to the process, it promises great reward.
Marriage advice#3: Being married means giving it your all to your spouse daily. Even when you don’t feel like it and even when it hurts. It means looking beyond yourself, and giving to them because they are a part of you.
Marriage advice # 4: Never talk bad about your spouse to another person. This minimizes your spouses’ integrity and takes away from your character.
Marriage advice # 5: When times get hard, just remember that marriage is like golf. It’s expensive. It can be thrilling and glorious… It can be difficult and frustrating, all in the same afternoon. But if you practice, don’t get upset over the little things, avoid the hazards, and be responsible with your balls…It will be the best eighteen holes of your life!
· Ends With A Toast
End it all by raising a glass to the happy couple!
Here are two examples:
To my son and his wife, may you love each other more with each passing day-and may you always remember, I am the one who paid for this party!
To the happy couple, may your marriage be like fine wine-getting better with age, and making everyone around you feel merry!